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Are you tired of feeling trapped in the cycle of self-doubt? Ready to break free and embrace a life of unstoppable confidence and fulfillment? Look no further! In this guide, i’ll walk you through practical steps to shift from the prison of self-doubt to the limitless skies of belief.

1. Self-Awareness:

Start by acknowledging and understanding your self-doubt triggers. Reflect on past experiences, limiting beliefs, and negative self-talk that have held you back. Awareness is the first step toward change.

2. Mindset Mastery:

Challenge those self-limiting beliefs. Replace them with empowering affirmations and positive thoughts. Practice mindfulness and gratitude to reshape your mindset and foster self-confidence.

3. Set Tangible Goals:

Set clear, achievable goals that align with your passions and strengths. Break them down into smaller steps, and celebrate each milestone you achieve. This will build your sense of accomplishment and confidence.

4. Embrace Failure:

Shift your perspective on failure. See it as a stepping stone toward growth rather than a roadblock. Embrace mistakes as valuable lessons that propel you forward.

5. Cultivate Self-Compassion:

Treat yourself with kindness and understanding. Practice self-compassion when setbacks occur, and remember that everyone faces challenges. Treat yourself as you would a friend.

6. Skill Development:

Identify areas where you want to improve and develop new skills. As you see yourself grow and achieve competence, your self-confidence will naturally increase.

7. Surround Yourself with Positivity:

Surround yourself with people who uplift and support you. Engage in activities that bring you joy and inspire you. Positive environments foster positive mindsets.

8. Visualise Success:

Use visualisation techniques to imagine yourself succeeding and living a fulfilled life. The more you can vividly see your success, the more you'll believe it's possible.

9. Celebrate Small Wins:

Celebrate even the smallest achievements. Whether it's speaking up in a meeting or taking a new step, recognize your progress and reinforce your confidence.

10. Continuous Growth:

Remember that building confidence is an ongoing journey. Keep seeking opportunities for personal and professional growth. Embrace challenges as chances to prove your capability.

You have the power within you to break free from self-doubt and step into a life of unstoppable confidence and fulfillment. By applying these steps consistently, you'll transform your mindset, conquer challenges, and reach heights you once thought were unreachable. It's time to embrace your limitless potential and live the life you deserve!

Updated: Jun 12

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size fits all solutions - Human Design helps you recognise your innate gifts and traits so you can be the person you truly came to this Earth to be. And one of the best parts? It will guide you on the most effortless road you can travel to live the life of your dreams.

I know you might be wondering what exactly Human Design is. Well, It's a system that helps you understand how you exert energy and make decisions in a more aligned way. the system breaks down how you're wired to make decisions, your gifts, where you are more open to conditioning and so much more. It's based on your exact time, date, and place of birth, and is often called an energetic blueprint. It's a mix of Kabbalah, I'Ching, astrology, genetics, and the chakra system - all in one system!

The first step to discovering your Human Design is to generate your chart, which you can do easily from my website at You will need your birthday, place, and exact time of birth. A word of warning, it can be a bit complicated to read your chart by yourself. That's why I've created a free guide to help you navigate some of the basic principles.

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Updated: Oct 28, 2022

There are very few people who could call themselves perfect and be right. Most of us need to build aspects of our self-confidence each and every day, but the vast majority of us just choose to ignore the issues or only concentrate on the negatives in life such as stress, worry, jobs, money problems and relationship issues. Choosing to focus only on these areas simply drains our self-confidence rather than improving it. Imagine, if you could improve your self-confidence, you could make more money, look and feel better physically, or just be more relaxed with and around other people. Below there are five simple techniques that have been proven to help build self-confidence.

I know suggestions of talking to yourself may sound a tad crazy but trust me it works. It's no secret that all of us have a running monologue constantly in our heads, whether we realise it or not. Everything we see, hear, or touch sparks off an immediate dialogue in our thoughts. For those of us who lack confidence this monologue can often be filled with negative directives, many of which are further escalated by the mass media television, radio, newspapers, or even just overhearing what other people say.

Have you ever been in a situation where you felt totally consumed by such negative thoughts, you literally felt like all your energy was sucked from your mind and body? I know I certainly have! Did you know this can consciously block the flow of positive messages coming through?

It is absolutely imperative that we find ways to receive positive messages, as that is what ultimately contributes to building your self-confidence. Why not choose to raise your self-esteem. Take control. Use your inner thoughts to talk to yourself in a positive manner, as often as you can.

1. Use positive affirmations

Saying them on a daily basis is key, one example I use is "I love myself; I love myself; I love myself". I aim to repeat it for a couple of minutes. I know it may sound silly, but it really does help to help build your self-confidence. Try it! go to the mirror right now and repeat out loud "I love myself!" 20 times, I assure you, it will be impossible to stop yourself from smiling.

2. Dress for the occasion

Always dress as smartly you can. It's a proven fact you cannot feel your best if you don't look your best. You will be amazed at just how much more confidence you will have just by ensuring you always look and feel your absolute best. This can certainly be done by wearing clothes that make you feel good. Wearing your "Sunday best" is definitely a thing of the past, it really doesn't matter what day of the week it is, it's all about boosting your confidence right here and now and not just at the weekends. Go on put on your favourite clothes, do your hair! and remember "Every day is showtime!" 3. Possess the attitude of gratitude

One great way to ensure you increase your self-esteem, even more, is by giving thanks for, where you are in life, who you are, how you look, and what you are doing. Make it common practise to say "thank you" to yourself, and for everything you see, all whom you meet, and each smile that you receive. Being thankful for everything is so important. 4. Good posture

Stand or sit correctly: How you stand sends out a message to the World, and in turn, back to you. This results in improving how you feel about yourself and will build your self-confidence not just for today but every day. There is actually scientific evidence that shows how posture can affect our mood. Do not slouch. Slouching produces a down mood. By slouching you are telling the world and yourself it doesn't matter, you don't matter. Standing tall and upright will actually lift your mood. Help build up your confidence by pulling back those shoulders, stop that slouch, and walk proud.

5. Show that beautiful smile

Smile. Just smile, trust me things seem better somehow. Practice smiling regularly and get your facial muscles used to the physical act of smiling. When you next look in the mirror or as you walk by a store front smile at yourself. Not a grimace, but a proper smile.

Let me know how you get on! I'd love to see some selfies.

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